What partners are saying...

Jessica B., NJ

"I had an interesting experience with the disclosure and polygraph. Overall, I recommend them and especially that they are done with the support of a coach or counselor trained in treating addicts/partners affected by sex addiction. While it was painful to go through the process since I discovered through the disclosure a lot more acting out that my husband had done and hidden from me, it was important to my healing to hear the truth. Where it was complicated for me was that my husband failed the polygraph that followed the disclosure because he had not been fully honest and then he disclosed more acting out to me on two separate occasions following that. I am glad that the polygraph showed that he was still withholding information."

B. Hartley, WV

"It hurts, that I needed a polygraph as well, but I truly did. I would have always believe what he was telling me. I just take people at their word, for me it was hard to learn that I can NO LONGER do that. It was hard, probably just as hard as learning about his s*x addiction. D-day was the hardest thing I have ever experienced; I was and still am broken. This process was a necessity, I am glad we used the polygraph this time. The first time was just a disclosure. DO NOT skip on this part, I did, and I regret it. I recommend Coach Stephanie and know that whatever team she comes up with will really support you well! Get your disclosure and polygraph - you are worth it!"

Lisa, NE

"I am glad to say that I was happy to receive a disclosure and polygraph. The waiting process was very hard on me. There were definitely times where I had to book extra random sessions, and also booked with my therapist. I think this was needed though, this is the closest I have ever felt with my husband."

Alexa S., NC

"The hardest part of this process was waiting, and the after effect. He was under an illusion that the hurt would be erased. The issue is that he really hurt me, I fully trusted him, his spirit and his words. I thought that he would NEVER lie, the whole world loved him. He never met a stranger, yet he was living a whole secret life. Looking back, this was the best way to even consider ever trusting him again. I am glad we went through this process; he also continues to do yearly polygraphs."

N. Miller, NC

"I couldn't wait and ended up having him throw up everything on me... It was HE*L. I had no support ready, my clinician and coach were out of reach, and I did not prepare for the mental distress that came with. I never felt more alone, stupid and mortified. I highly advise that you wait, there's always things to do in the meantime. Separate if you need. Let him dig deep, let him hurt and heal, let him get that shame out. Let him recall all of it so you hear it all one or two times, if possible. There is nothing worse than getting D-Days every month... I noticed that when I did it alone and quickly that's what I ended up getting. I finally signed up to do this correctly and he has been in actual recovery since then, with 3 passed polygraphs as well. All of that was there before you anyway, I'm also sure you heard and learned enough. Being patient is so important. "

Catherine Frye, GA

“I never thought this would be the type of help me and my fiancé were going to need. I was so thankful to have worked with Steph. My therapist prior, just jumped to not getting married. I felt like I still have a lot of questions... Although I am still in a confusing stage, I really needed this. I deserved it. I cannot say I was the best client; my partner was disclosing crap left and right, and I did keep digging. Definitely listen to the guidance provided and do WHATEVER you need to not ask for more. Wait for the disclosure day, even though it sucks!”